The Cleverly Newsletter has been published in hard copy since September 1973 and online since October 2008.

Currently posted the first day of each month by Ivard and Dorothy's seventh son, Dean B Cleverly. Comments, suggestions, contributions welcomed at dcleverly@gmail.com.

Monday, November 24, 2008

1 The first Thanksgiving

Kay's grandson Easton (Chad and Nicolle Higley's son) holding a turkey

We traditionally think of the first Thanksgiving being celebrated by the Pilgrims in the Plymouth Plantation (in what is now Massachusetts) in 1621. There is historical evidence, however, that a thanksgiving mass was held as early as 1565 in what is now Saint Augustine, Florida, and a thanksgiving feast as early as 1619 in the Virginia colony.

The following foods were likely on the Pilgrims' 1621 menu, according to Kathleen Curtin, food historian at Plymouth Plantation:

Seafood:
Cod, eel, clams, lobster
Wild Fowl: Wild turkey, goose, duck, crane, swan, partridge, eagles
Meat: Venison, seal
Grain: Wheat flour, Indian corn
Vegetables: Pumpkin, peas, beans, onions, lettuce, radishes, carrots
Fruit: Plums, grapes
Nuts: Walnuts, chestnuts, acorns
Herbs and Seasonings: Olive oil, liverwort, leeks, dried currants, parsnips

Surprisingly, the following foods, all considered staples of the modern Thanksgiving meal, didn't appear on the Pilgrims's first feast table:

Ham: There is no evidence that the colonists had butchered a pig by this time, though they had brought pigs with them from England.
Sweet Potatoes/Potatoes: These were not common.
Corn on the Cob: Corn was kept dried out at this time of year.
Cranberry Sauce: The colonists had cranberries but no sugar at this time.
Pumpkin Pie: It's not a recipe that exists at this point, though the Pilgrims had recipes for stewed pumpkin.
Chicken/Eggs: We know that the colonists brought hens with them from England, but it's unknown how many they had left at this point or whether the hens were still laying.
Milk: No cows had been aboard the Mayflower, though it's possible that the colonists used goat milk to make cheese.

2 Quote of the week

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.

John F. Kennedy (1917-1963)

3 This week in our family

Wed, Nov 26: Cade & Rebecca Hoff married 1994 [Dean]
Thurs, Nov 27: Thanksgiving Day
Fri, Nov 28: Melissa's birthday (Chad's wife) [Kay]
Mon, Dec 1: Next issue of newsletter

4 Bits and tidbits

Report from Peru
A report on Kay and Karen in the Peru Lima Central Mission excerpted from Karen's e-mail of Sunday, November 23

"I had baked a carrot cake and brought it into the office for Kay's birthday, which was on Saturday. The elders all sang happy birthday and then we had cake and ice cream. Four elders very quickly wiped out a half gallon of ice cream.

"Saturday the Elders invited us to go to the zoo to celebrate Kay's birthday. We really were not expecting much, but we looked forward to going. We were pleasantly surprised. The area the zoo is located on is quite large. It is one big beautiful garden. There were not a lot of animals, but the animals we saw we really enjoyed. They were mostly South American animals which we had not seen before. And, they were very active. That is something we usually do not get to see in our zoos at home. A panther (black leopard) was perched in the top of a tree. A lioness roared and roared at the crowd. Monkeys were all over the place. The South American bears were laying down, but were playfully pawing each other. Did I mention that because we are over 65 Kay and I got in free? That was a pleasant perk. . . .

"This has been an interesting week. Thursday, Friday and Saturday were declared Business holidays because of APEC (Asian Pacific Economic Cooperation). We have presidents of countries from all over the Pacific world, including President Bush, Laura and one daughter. Very little traffic out was really nice. The meetings have been held in our general neighborhood. Streets are lined with police officers. Some streets . . . have gates across them preventing any traffic at all. There are frequent sirens as motorcades of the presidents with their police escorts come and go. It is interesting, but each motorcade has an ambulance at the end of it. The majority of businesses, houses and apartment buildings are flying Peruvian flags on their roof tops. We spoke with a police officer today after church and asked him when the presidents would be going home. He told us today, but that many of them are staying and will be tourists here. That is very good, but I know it causes lots of problems for the policemen. . . .

"Thanksgiving Day we will travel 45 minutes to the MTC here to eat Thanksgiving dinner with the missionaries who are there and other couples. We will also join them for Christmas dinner."

Transform to . . .
Nicolle (Kay's daughter) posted the following last Tuesday: "Today I overheard Easton talking to Gretchen. They were playing in Easton's room and I had just told Easton he needed to get dressed. A few minutes later I hear him say, 'Gretchen, now I am going to transform into Naked Guy!' I thought it was hilarious and had to write it down."

Another marathon
Our daughter Anna ran her ninth marathon on Saturday, November 22, in the Valley of Fire State Park in southern Nevada. Without any specific training, other than the ongoing running, swimming, and biking that she does, she decided at the last minute to enter the marathon. It was a difficult course with a lot of hills over the course of the 26.2-mile race. She finished in 4 hours and 40 minutes. And she's still alive to tell the tale.

The marathons she has finished include nine races in six states:
  1. June 22, 2002: Anchorage, Alaska
  2. Oct 11, 2003: Lake Tahoe, California
  3. Apr 24, 2004: Salt Lake City, Utah
  4. Oct 2, 2004: St George, Utah
  5. Apr 23, 2005: Salt Lake City, Utah
  6. Oct 1, 2005: St George, Utah
  7. May 19, 2007: Boise, Idaho
  8. May 17, 2008: Fargo, North Dakota
  9. Nov 22, 2008: Overton, Nevada
Financial peace
Claudia and I and our daughter Rebecca and her husband Cade just finished a 13-week course, Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University, that we attended every Monday night starting late in the summer and ending last Monday night. The focus, in a fun and motivational way, was to get us doing what we should have known and been doing all along: such things as saving for a rainy day, getting out of debt, paying our tithes and offerings.

5 Our family 50 years ago

What our family was up to during the fall of 1958, based on entries in Dorothy's Diary during the final week of November 1958. The full text of her diary can be found online and is updated daily, exactly 50 years to the day after it was originally written. The family at the time lived on an 80-acre farm in the Big Bend area of eastern Oregon.


Mon, Nov 24. I came home from work & ate a little & went to bed. I washed 2 batches of clothes & Gene got supper & we made 3 batches of cranberry relish. Kay went to play practice.

Tues, Nov 25. Dean & Dale had D.P.T. booster shot. I came home from work & helped hold Turkey while Ivard killed him then went to bed & Ivard cleaned him, dressed out 24 lbs. I got up at 1: & Jackie & I went to relief society. I picked Kids up after school & Dean & Dale had sore arms from shots, I forgot to take Jackie. Ray got supper.

Wed, Nov 26. Got letter from Jerry. We are off for next 5 days. Came home from work & Ivard helped me get stuff ready & I made 4 carrot puddings. Jackie & I went to bed & had nap then I got up & made 3 pumpkin pies & 2 shells & Gene helped me make cranberry jello salad. Kay, Gene & Ray went to Mutual, Rays class went swimming.

Thurs, Nov 27. I got up at 7: & put Turkey on & made waffles for breakfast. At noon Ivard, Kay, & Gene went to Boise to B.J.C. Tyler Texas foot ball game. I spent all day copying my story to mail True Experience $15,000 contest. I made dressing, candied yams, & gravey. We ate at 5:30. Gene did chores and Bob & Fran came and took Kay & Claudia over to Stake dance. I went to bed early. I was tired from writeing all day.

Fri, Nov 28. Kay went over to school to senior breakfast & play practice & Ivard and Gene went up & fixed tractor tire. I took Ray selling cards, he sold all but 2 boxes.

Sat, Nov 29. Got letter from Jerry. Tom give Gene $28. for chores & I took him to town & he did all his Xmas shopping. We came home at dark & Ray had house cleaned. Ray & Gene did chores & Ray did dishes. Kay went ward teaching.

Sun, Nov 30. Ivard came home from work & went to bed. Kids all went to sunday school, priesthood & fast meeting. Had to wake Ivard up to help get cows in. Had dinner read when Kids got home at 2: & we ate & Ivard left for work at 3: I wrote all afternoon, 6 letters & got diary up. My last night off.

6 What in the world

Temple dedication
President Thomas S. Monson rededicated the Mexico City Temple on Sunday, November 16. The temple, originally dedicated 25 years ago, had been closed for major refurbishing and repair during the past 18 months. It is the largest and oldest of the 12 temples in Mexico.

No Christmas bonus this year
The Wall Street Journal recently reported that top executives at Goldman Sachs had agreed because of tough economic times to forgo their normal year-end bonuses this year. Instead, the poor fellows will have to make do on their base salaries of $600,000. Are these people from the same planet the rest of us are?

Utah beats BYU
The annual red and blue rivalry played out Saturday afternoon in Ute Stadium with undefeated Utah beating BYU 48-24. And as much as we Cougar fans would have loved to have seen a BYU win, many of the BYU fans that I have talked to are actually glad that Utah maintained its undefeated record and will be in one of the BCS bowls during the holidays. Way to go, Utes!


[Picture by Scott G. Winterton, Deseret News]

And the season finals
- Utah ended up 12-0 for the season (6th in BCS standings, 7th and 8th in other polls)
- Boise State ended up 11-0 for the season (9th in all the polls)
- BYU ended up 10-2 for the season (18th, 19th, 20th, and 21st in the various polls)

7 A final word

How easy it is in times of ease and pros­perity to forget the Giver of all good things in our lives.

The Lord warns us: "And in nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things, and obey not his commandments" (D&C 59:21).

Abraham Lincoln said essentially the same thing in these words: "We have been the recipients of the choicest bounties of heaven; we have been preserved these many years in peace and prosperity; we have grown in number, wealth, and power as no other Nation has ever grown. But we have forgotten God. We have forgotten the gracious hand which preserved us in peace and multi­plied and enriched and strengthened us, and we have vainly imagined, in the de­ceitfulness of our hearts, that these bless­ings were produced by some superior wis­dom and virtue of our own. Intoxi­cated with unbroken success we have become too self-sufficient to feel the necessity of redeeming and preserving grace, too proud to pray to the God who made us.

"It behooves us, then, to humble our­selves before the offended power, to con­fess our . . . sins, and to pray for clemency and forgiveness" (Abraham Lincoln, Man of God, John Wesley Hill, 391).

Though written nearly a century and a half ago, these words fit our situ­ation to­day as much or more so than they did in 1863. Let us be grateful. Let us keep His command­ments. Let us, as the ancient pro­phet urged, "live in thanks­giving daily" (Alma 24:38), not just at Thanksgiving time but every day of our lives.

Monday, November 17, 2008

1 Images of autumn

This first image, showing red berries, was posted by Kira (Dale and LeAnn's family) on September 11.


This picture was taken by Rachael Hodson (our daughter in Malad) and posted on November 5.


Apples harvested off the tree in our front yard, the picture taken by our daughter Mary Oveson and posted on September 11.


An astonished two-year-old Peter Challis reacting to what the inside of a pumpkin looks like. The picture was posted by our son-in-law Paul in Georgia on November 1.

2 Quote of the week

"Let us make our homes sanctuaries of righteousness, places of prayer, and abodes of love that we might merit the blessings that can come only from our Heavenly Father. We need His guidance in our daily lives" (Thomas S. Monson, Ensign, Nov. 2008, 61).

3 This week in our family

Thurs, Nov 20: Ivard died 1988
Fri, Nov 21: Clifford Rankin's birthday [Gail]
Sat, Nov 22: Dean & Claudia married 1972
Sat, Nov 22: Keisha's birthday [Dale]
Mon, Nov 24: Next issue of newsletter

4 Bits and tidbits

An old friend of Jerry's
I talked on the phone this past week with Jerry in Boise. I was calling to tell him that I had received an e-mail from Keith Farr, who was one of Jerry's best friends in high school back in the 1950s in Adrian. He had found the Cleverly Newsletter online and said he remembered the old farmhouse well (the picture of which we post each week with Dorothy's Diary). Keith lives somewhere in northern California. I was calling Jerry to see if it was okay with him to give Keith his address and phone number, which Jerry said it was.

Happy birthday, Kay

On Saturday Nicolle posted this picture of Kay, shown with a couple of his grandchildren, in honor of his birthday. It was taken a month or so before Kay and Karen began their mission to Peru.


Any mail to Kay and Karen should be sent to the mission home at this address:

Elder and Sister Cleverly
Perú Lima Central Misión
Av. Jorge Basadre 592 Of. 604 "B"
San Isidro
Lima 27 Perú


Quick trip to Idaho
Claudia and I drove to Malad yesterday afternoon, as soon as Claudia finished teaching her Gospel Doctrine lesson in our ward. We made the hour-and-a-half trip to watch two of our granddaughters, Claudia Sue and Esther, in their ward's Primary sacrament meeting program. Afterward we enjoyed a treat of pie and ice cream back at Robert and Rachael's house before heading back down the road to Bountiful.

5 Our family 50 years ago

What our family was up to during the fall of 1958, based on entries in Dorothy's Diary during November 1958. The full text of her diary can be found online and is updated daily, exactly 50 years to the day after it was originally written. The family at the time lived on an 80-acre farm in the Big Bend area of eastern Oregon. Lyle and Barbara were in Sacramento, California. Gail and Lynda were in Centerville, Utah. Jerry was on a mission in Canada.


Mon, Nov 17. Got letter from Jerry. I got up & took Kay & Gene to Seminary. Came home & little Kids missed bus & I had to take them to Adrian. I wrote letters until noon. I worked on my relief society lesson for tomorrow.

Tues, Nov 18. I came home from work & went to bed & Ivard & Jackie went to Nyssa to have President Child sign Temple recomend. I got up at 1: & I went to relief society. I gave my Lesson today. got Kids at school & came home & Ray, Jackie & I went selling cards.

Wed, Nov 19. Ivard tended Jackie all day. I fixed Ivard something to eat & he went to work & Jackie & I got ready & went over to Primary to Dales class party. Gail called & said I'd be a Grandma in April. Kay, Gene & Ray went to Mutual.

Thurs, Nov 20. Ivard left for Idaho Falls Temple for 2 days at 6: A.M. Dean stayed home with Jackie today & cleaned up house.

Fri, Nov 21. Ivard did 5 sessions. I spent until 1: writeing my story for True Story Contest then Jackie & I went to bed until Kids came from school. I went to bed until time to go to work & Ivard came just as I got up so I drove to work. going to Idaho Falls there was a pick up followed them for miles, right behind them & they hit a patch of fog & when they came out the pick up didn't. a train hit it & killed both guys & Ivard never even heard or saw it.

Sat, Nov 22. sure foggy comeing home from work & I was so cold. I got up at noon & Dale & I went to Nyssa & got Thanksgiving groc, a lot of good bargains we had 2 nickle hot dogs apiece. Gene did chores & Kay took him to Adrian to a class party & Kay went to Ontario to show with Puch & Gene drove car home alone.

Sun, Nov 23. Ivard & all the Kids went to priesthood & sunday school. I got up & fixed dinner, had strawberry short cake for desert.

6 What in the world

First Presidency Christmas Devotional
The First Presidency Christmas Devotional will be held Sunday, December 7, 2008, at 6:00 p.m. mountain time. It will be available via audio and video streams on the Internet and will be broadcast on BYU TV and on local television stations in Utah.

This week's football
- Utah [11-0] at San Diego State (Utah won 63-14) / Ranked 7th and 8th in the various polls
- Boise State [10-0] at Idaho (BSU won 45-10) / Ranked 9th in all the polls
- BYU [10-1] at Air Force (BYU won 38-24) / Ranked 14th and 16th in the various polls

7 A final word

We're definitely not in Utah anymore . . .

Some missionary thoughts posted on November 11 by our son-in-law Paul Challis, who is now a pharmacy student at Mercer University in Atlanta

One of the obvious differences in coming out to Georgia from Utah is the shift from being a part of the majority religion in the area to being thrown into a hodge-podge of many different cultures and religions.

A month or so ago I jumped out of my box for the first time out here and shared some of my religious beliefs with a few classmates on our way to a Hawks basketball game. One of my friends seemed interested in having a Book of Mormon. I went and bought a few at the Distribution Center when we went to a sealing [at the Atlanta Temple], but I still hadn't gotten around to giving it out to my friend.

The missionaries stopped by last night and followed up on our "family missionary plan" we set with them actually right before I had that experience last month. That gave me the push I needed to give out the Book of Mormon to my friend today. It was a cool experience because I usually don't sit by him very much in class, and I was pretty early today so I was one of the first people in the room. I prepared a list of some of my favorite passages and wrote a short note and said a prayer that I would have a good opportunity to give it to him. Guess who came in and sat right by me?

I don't know how serious about the church he will be, but I really hope that he reads it and is touched by the Spirit. I don't know him very well, but he seems to be a humble guy who believes in the Savior. I think it is just amazing how much Heavenly Father loves His children, I mean it obviously wasn't a coincidence that he sat by me today. It gave me a spiritual boost and I hope I can continue to try spread the good word.

I actually didn't have to wait long for another opportunity. I was sitting by another classmate eating lunch and these two representatives of a non-denominational church came up and started talking to us about our beliefs. So I had an opportunity again to share some of my beliefs with them and my classmate who was talking to me at the time. They were the type who were somewhat argumentative and were trying to tear down my beliefs and stuff.

I actually saw them again later and talked to them about what they believed happened after we die. I explained that we believe in eternal marriage and eternal families and they proceeded to tell me that based on a scripture in Matthew 22:30, which says, For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven; we can't be married in heaven.

They failed to actually read the context of the scripture which is the situation in which the Sadducees asked Jesus if a man who married passed away and his brother married her, he died so the next brother married and same pattern continued all the way down to the 7th brother who would then be married in the Resurrection. Verse 29 says: Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God.

So basically they can't all be married to her and the marriages were all temporal marriages, none were sealed by the power of God. It really bugs me that people take passages out of context to "prove us wrong" when it is just so way off. It brought back a few memories of similar situations from my mission. It is sad to see someone so diligent, but yet so way off. I got his phone number so I could maybe talk to him later, I'm not sure if it will go anywhere, but you never know.

This has gone on long enough, but I will end by just expressing my gratitude for belonging to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I know that my family is eternal because my marriage was performed by the priesthood of God. Through the Atonement of Jesus Christ I can become worthy to return to God's presence and with my family partake in exaltation. I am not mighty in stature, nor in word, but I do have a testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ, and I am doing my best to prove it.

Monday, November 10, 2008

1 What was that again?

A coworker e-mailed me the following headlines. These are not made up. They are from actual newspapers. Apparently they don't use proofreaders much anymore.

Man Kills Self before Shooting Wife and Daughter

Police Begin Campaign to Run Down Jaywalkers

Panda Mating Fails;
Veterinarian Takes Over

Miners Refuse to Work after Death

Juvenile Court to Try Shooting Defendant

War Dims Hope for Peace

If Strike Isn't Settled Quickly,
It May Last Awhile

Cold Wave Linked to Temperatures

London Couple Slain;
Police Suspect Homicide

Red Tape Holds Up New Bridges

Man Struck by Lightening;
Faces Battery Charge

New Study of Obesity
Looks for Larger Test Group

Kids Make Nutritious Snacks

Local High School Dropouts Cut in Half

Hospitals Are Sued by 7 Foot Doctors

Typhoon Rips through Cemetery;
Hundreds Dead

2 Quote of the week

"We urge all Latter-day Saints to be prudent in their planning, to be conservative in their living, and to avoid excessive or unnecessary debt" (Thomas S. Monson, Ensign, Nov. 2008, 61).

3 This week in our family

Tues, Nov 11: Kay & Karen married 2006
Tues, Nov 11: Veterans Day
Sat, Nov 15: Kay's birthday
Mon, Nov 17: Next issue of newsletter

4 Bits and tidbits

Pregnancy perks
Our daughter Eliza went to vote in Georgia. "Because of my large and in charge belly," she wrote, "I got to jump to the front of the line to vote! . . . After waiting in line for 45 minutes, one of the voter helper people came outside to answer questions. When he saw me, he rushed over and said that since I was pregnant I could go straight to the front of the line and then he apologized that he hadn't seen me earlier. I was surprised but happy."

Celebration!
Kate (Gail and Lynda's family) wrote on November 8: "Last month when I took Megan to her clinic appointment, her PFT (pulmonary function test) was down. During the summer when she was doing really well her FEV1 score was 72, which was really good for Megan. In October, her FEV1 score had dropped to 65, so they gave me 1 month to get her score up or they were going to check her into the hospital. When we went yesterday, I was all packed and ready for our hospital stay knowing that she was probably still down. Then we got the surprise of our lives. Megan did her first breath and the clinician yelled out and covered her mouth with her hand. She just stood there shocked for several seconds before I said, 'Are you trying to torture me or what?' She apologized and said that her score was up to 81. I almost cried. We were celebrating so loudly that the doctor in the other room trying to take dictation had to start over."

Here is what happens when . . .
Nicolle (Kay's family) wrote on November 3: "Here is what happens when you leave your 1-year-old unattended for just a few minutes. Gretchen enjoys sitting on the kitchen table. I usually try to have it cleaned off. This morning however I forgot to put the Cheerio box away. I ran downstairs to change the laundry and came back up and found this. Easton never climbed up things like Gretchen does. This is all new territory."



Let winter begin
With recent storms across northern Utah, Snowbird opened for the ski season on Friday, November 7. Our son-in-law Peter Halverson was among those who showed up for opening day.

Missionary service
A report posted yesterday from Kay and Karen in Peru: "[Saturday] morning from 8:30 am to 1:30 we went to our ward in Magdalena and had splits with some members of the ward. Karen went with Maria Elena to 8 inactive members in perhaps the largest zone of the ward. Luckily for Karen, Maria speaks some English. They spoke to someone at 7 of the homes.

"I went with Santiago a 17-year-old priest, to the furthest part of the ward to 22 homes. We found that several of the people had moved and perhaps aren't inactive after all. Several said that they would come to church, though we didn't see any of them today. We even talked to a neighbor of one of the sisters we were looking for that said she would like to know more about our church and would love to have the lessons. Today we turned her name over to the elders working in that area to go teach her."

5 Our family 50 years ago

Our family 50 years ago
What our family was up to during the fall of 1958, based on entries in Dorothy's Diary during November 1958. The full text of her diary can be found online and is updated daily, exactly 50 years to the day after it was originally written. The family at the time lived on an 80-acre farm in the Big Bend area of eastern Oregon.



Mon, Nov 10. I came home from work & Ray was home with baby. When Ivard got chores done we took Ray to school & went to Vale & paid all our taxes & back taxes then we went to Ontario & got licence for Pick-up. Came home at 11:30 & went to bed. When bus came Kay & Gene went out & burned weeds & Ray & I fixed supper. Gene & Kay went to P.T.S.A.

Tues, Nov 11. I came home from work half froze. Kids didn't have to go to school. I went to bed. Ivard, Kay, & Gene went over & picked Duaines corn. Ivard & Kay came home at 2: & Ivard went to work & Kay went to Homedale bowling with Pete. Ray got me up at 12:30 & I went to relief society work day.

Wed, Nov 12. I came home from work so cold. I ate & went to bed & Ivard & Jackie went with me to get me warm. I woke up at 1:30 & Jackie was asleep. I got up at 3: & washed 2 batches of clothes and put supper on, we had stuffed peppers out of locker. Gene went & did Toms chores then we ate & he did ours. Kay went to Mutual & their class went to show so Gene & Ray didn't go to Mutual.

Thurs, Nov 13. It started to rain at 6:45 A.M & rained hard until we got home from work. rained on & off all day. Made barbacue & fruit cocktail for supper.

Fri, Nov 14. I came home from work & went to bed and just got to sleep & Ivard let Jackie wake me up so I got up and we went to Nampa & got Ivards check & paid pick up then went to Caldwell & got groc. & we went to bank & got Kay some birthday presents. It was 4: when we got home from town so I fixed shrimp salad, cottage cheese & stuff & strawberry short cake and we ate right after Kids got home and I went to bed until time to go to work.

Sat, Nov 15. Kay was 17 ys. Kay got B. card from Jerry & Dale a post card. I came home from work froze half to death & went to bed awhile with Ivard & got warm. Ray got floors scrubbed & work done up and fixed Kays birthday dinner & frosted him a cake (angle food) I bought. We had spagetti & baked squash & frozen peas & cake & sherbet. We ate at 2: Kay got pr. pajamas, black orlon sweater shirt, Shave lotion, & tooth powder & cherry choclates. My night off Kay took car & took Claudia to show at Caldwell.

Sun, Nov 16. We all went to priesthood & sunday school. Ivard got a recomend after to go to temple on his days off. Kay got one to get a patrical blessing. My night off.

6 What in the world

A historic presidential moment
Last Tuesday, following high voter turnout across the country, Americans elected Barack Obama as their 44th President. He is the first African American to be elected to that office. We've come a long way from the days of the Civil War and Reconstruction and Segregation and the Civil Rights Movement.

Election results by the numbers:
- Electoral college: 364 for Obama, 163 for McCain, 11 undecided
- States: 28 for Obama, 21 for McCain, 1 undecided
- Popular vote: 64,538,980 for Obama, 56,802,609 for McCain
- Percentage of vote: 53% for Obama, 46% for McCain

The new Congress
With a couple races yet to be decided, Congress by the numbers:
- Senate: 57 Democrats, 40 Republicans
- House of Representatives: 255 Democrats, 174 Republicans


Traditional marriage reaffirmed
Proposition 8, which added to the California constitution a provision that marriage is only between a man and a woman, was approved by California voters. Similar measures also passed in Arizona and Florida. Opponents of the proposition in California vow to fight the measure in the courts and in any other way they can devise, including public demonstrations and other disruptions.

Interestingly, the only places same-sex marriage had become legal in this country resulted from court decisions, not from the action of either voters or through them their legislators. When actual people have a say in the matter, traditional norms are upheld.

And this week's look at college football
- Utah beat TCU 13-10 [ranked 7th in BCS and USA Today polls, 8th in AP and ESPN polls]
- Boise State beat Utah State 49-14 [9th in all the polls]
- BYU beat San Diego State 41-12 [14th in USA Today poll, 16th in AP and ESPN polls, and 17th in BCS standings]

7 A Final word

A blog posted by our daughter Rachael on November 5, the day after the election, that sums up as well as anything I've seen the differences that could divide us if we were to let them. For the sake of space, I've shortened her original post a bit. She refers to her husband as DH and their precocious first child as Uno.

DH and I have very different organizational styles: He likes things neatly filed away and out of sight; I feel most productive when I have stacks and piles out in front of me. My way looks messy, I admit, but I promise there is order and purpose in the chaos.

DH's anxiety flares up when he sees the state of my desk. I feel great anxiety any time he threatens to "clean it up" for me, as he did on Sunday.

The two older girls came into the room at the height of our discussion about organizing the desk. "Stop fighting!" the very sensitive Uno said. Now, we weren't fighting (I wouldn't have been talking to him at all if we were); we just happen to enjoy banter and spirited debate especially where our views differ (and frankly, even when we agree). That's pretty much always been our dynamic.

I explained to her that we weren't fighting, we were just hashing out our different ways of doing things. "I like to organize things into piles," I told her, "and Daddy likes to put them away in a drawer. Dad wanted to organize all this stuff his way—but I'm the one who uses the office most and needs all these papers, so if he put them away I wouldn't know where to find anything."

See? Makes perfect sense. I win. Case closed.

"Well," DH said. "All Mommy has to do is let me alphabetize it, and then she can find anything she needs."

I balked, my anxiety flaring up again. Alphabetizing won't help if he's the one doing it! Let's consider: Would he put the car insurance policy under Auto? Car? Insurance? Would our largest monthly bill be under M for Mortgage or H for House Payment? No, no, no. He is not to touch my piles. I know where everything is and he'd better not touch anything, I told him.

"Ah, come on. Why won't you let Daddy do it?" Uno asked. "Don't you know your whole alphabet?"

Silly family.

The thing is, I know that DH isn't wrong in wanting to clear off the desk. I believe he would concede that I'm not wrong, either, in wanting to know that every scrap of paper is where I put it. We just have different ways of accomplishing our organizational goals—which brings us (clumsily) to the U.S. Presidential election, decided last night in the favor of Barack Obama.

I know that there are plenty of people in my community and in my own family who feel not only disappointed in the election results, but anxious. They may be the proverbial filers to my piling tendencies, and the thought of having the nation's affairs put in order by someone who does things so much differently makes them nervous. I totally get that. But I hope they also realize that, while he sees things from another point of view, President Elect Obama has just as much love for this country as his opponent does and that, like Senator McCain, he only wants the best for the nation and its citizens.

At some point my piles are going to outgrow the available space on the top of my desk; at some point I am going to have to compromise with DH and file the old papers away. The thought makes me a little queasy—it feels wrong and unnatural—but eventually I'll have to buck up and do it. I think I'll feel far less uneasy if DH and I work together to file things than if, say, he surprised me with a clean desk one day when I'd been out grocery shopping.

The same thing goes for the country: The Democrats won't be able to deliver on all their promises without a little compromise and concession; the Republicans, again the minority, certainly won't. And in either case, whether you identify with the party of the Filers or with the Pilers, I think that anxiety you feel over the other will lessen if you remain involved in the process. That's not to say you have to run for office, yourself, but keep aware of current events; write to your elected representatives about issues you care about, locally and nationally; don't vote just once every four years, but for all the little local elections, as well.

We live in an amazing country. I feel like we're in good hands—and not just because my preferred candidate won the presidency, but because I know that my more conservative friends and family are intelligent, informed, and passionate about politics and the direction our country is headed. We may have different ways of accomplishing our goal of a stronger, better America, but in the end we do have the same goal; because of that, I'd say our future looks pretty bright.

(And hey, DH . . . . Pssssst! Don't touch my piles.)

Monday, November 3, 2008

1 Ballot Initiatives

Tomorrow's elections contain opportunities to decide on a variety of public policy issues. We summarize here ballot initiatives in some of the states where members of the family currently live.

Idaho
There are no statewide initiatives on the ballot in the Gem State. Supporters of three measures (on animal rights, judicial reform, and business regulation) failed to obtain enough signatures by the May 1 deadline to get the issues on the ballot.

Utah
The Beehive State has five constitutional amendments on the ballot:

- Amendment A revises various provisions affecting succession of executive branch officers.

- Amendment B makes changes to the permanent state trust fund.

- Amendment C changes the start and duration of the legislature's annual general session.

- Amendment D clarifies the time when the legislature is required to divide the state into congressional, legislative, and other districts.

- Amendment E allows the state to invest money in private stocks or bonds if the money comes from the State School Fund or from land granted by the federal government.

All five seem to be reasonable updates to the state's constitution. No arguments have been submitted against any of them.

Washington
Three initiatives are on the ballot in the Evergreen State:

- Initiative 985 is on transportation and would open high-occupancy vehicle lanes to all traffic during specified hours, require traffic light synchronization, increase roadside assistance funding, and dedicate certain taxes, fines, tolls and other revenues to traffic-flow purposes.

- Initiative 1000 deals with aid in dying. It would permit terminally ill, competent, adult Washington residents who are medically predicted to have six months or less to live, voluntarily to request and self-administer lethal medication prescribed by a physician. Supporters refer to the measure as the Death with Dignity initiative. Critics refer to it as the Assisted Suicide initiative. The initiative is based on a measure Oregon voters passed in 1994. Oregon is the only state to have enacted similar legislation.

- Initiative 1029 would revise examination, certification, and professional discipline standards and requirements for long-term care workers for the elderly or disabled.

California
Twelve propositions will appear on statewide ballots in the Golden State, in addition to 380 local ballot measures. The statewide issues deal with transportation, animal rights, health, abortion, law enforcement, the environment, election reform, and a bond issue.

Arguably the most controversial and most publicized of the measures is Proposition 8. It deals with the definition of marriage in California. A lot of time, effort, and money has been spent by both supporters and opponents of this measure. If passed, the proposition would amend the state constitution to prohibit same-sex couples from marrying in California and would state that "only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." The proposition would restore a state law approved in 2000 by 61 percent of California voters until it was struck down in May 2008 by a 4-3 vote of the state supreme court.

Texas
There is no referendum or initiative available in Texas. And no constitutional amendments this year. Hence, there are no issues on statewide ballots in the Lone Star State.

Nevada
Four initiatives are on the ballot in the Silver State:

- Question 1 would eliminate an unconstitutional requirement that a person must reside in Nevada for six months prior to an election in order to be eligible to vote in that election.

- Question 2 would prevent government agencies from using eminent domain to take land from one private owner and give to it another private owner.

- Question 3 deals with tax exemptions.

- Question 4 deals with sales tax and voter approval.

New Mexico
Five proposed constitutional amendments and four proposed bond issues are on the ballot in the Land of Enchantment. The constitutional amendments deal with details of governmental administration and election issues.

Georgia
Three constitutional amendments are on the ballot in the Peach Tree State:

- Amendment 1 encourages protection of Georgia's forests through special assessment and taxation of forest lands and assistance grants to local governments.

- Amendment 2 allows local governments to use education property taxes to fund development projects.

- Amendment 3 authorizes the General Assembly to provide for the creation and regulation of infrastructure development districts.

2 Quote of the week

"Many areas of the world have experienced difficult economic times. Businesses have failed, jobs have been lost, and investments have been jeopardized. We must make certain that those for whom we share responsibility do not go hungry or unclothed or unsheltered" (Thomas S. Monson, Ensign, Nov. 2008, 60).

3 This week in our family

Mon, Nov 3: Stan & Patty married 1978 [Lyle]
Tues, Nov 4: Andrew's birthday [Dean]
Tues, Nov 4: Vince & Mary married 2006 [Dean]
Tues, Nov 4: Election day
Wed, Nov 5: Liz's birthday [Gail]
Thurs, Nov 5: Angie's birthday [Gail]
Fri, Nov 7: Dayvis's birthday [Lyle]
Sat, Nov 8: Michael Duay's birthday [Gail]
Sun, Nov 9: Paul Challis's birthday [Dean]
Sun, Nov 9: Garrett Reher's birthday [Ray]
Mon, Nov 10: Next issue of the newsletter

4 Bits and tidbits

√ We have become aware of a couple new blogs in the family: Brian and Kate (Gail and Lynda's family) have a blog called Cleverly Invested, which you can link to at: http://cleverlyinvested.blogspot.com/. Brandon and Nicole (Kay and Claudia's family) discontinuted their old blog some months ago because of virus problems but have recently started a new one called Clev Clan, which you can link to at: http://www.clevclan.blogspot.com/.

This past week I received an e-mail from Judith Siu, who is a cousin of some sort, from the family of Sarah Cleverly Grange (Sarah was one of Ivard's sisters). I think that's how it all fits together. Anyway, here is Judy's e-mail: "Since living so far from relatives, I have not kept much contact. Last time I saw anyone from your side of the family, it was Gail, so you know how long ago that was.

"I am still working at Caesars Palace, Leonard is retired, David and his daughters are living with us, Tom is computer security manager at Case Western University in Cleveland, Ohio; Mike is doing his computer hardware stuff at Analog Systems in Santa Clara, and Ruthann is still flying for United (in fact, she just changed planes and will be flying the new Boeing 777 internationally). Arlene is living in West Bountiful, and as you may or may not know, both Howard and Michael have passed away."

This update on that branch of the family will probably make most sense to people like Lyle, Jerry, or Kay, who will know the people she is talking about.

√ We talked to Jackie on Halloween night to wish her a happy birthday. Rex had taken a night off from work, and they went up to Cascade and McCall (up in the mountains north of Boise) to celebrate with an overnight getaway.

Brian and Kate and family have been in California this past week and went to Disneyland, the beach, the San Diego Zoo, Sea World, and other such fun stuff. You can check out the pictures Kate posted on their blog site, Cleverly Invested.

√ Last week we previewed some Halloween shots of family members. Now that the big day has come and gone, you may want to check out some of the cute kids in the family: Claire Rager as a pink poodle in Texas, Peter Challis as the cutest lion in Georgia (this lion is especially cute, even if he is our grandson), the Burdetts in Washington, Chad and Nicolle Higley's family in Utah, Chuck and Andrea McAllister's family in Utah, and a slide show of Halloween fun at Chad and Melissa's in Utah.

5 Our family 50 years ago

What our family was up to during the fall of 1958, based on entries in Dorothy's Diary during November 1958. The full text of her diary can be found online and is updated daily, exactly 50 years to the day after it was originally written. The family at the time lived on an 80-acre farm in the Big Bend area of eastern Oregon. Lyle and Barbara lived in Sacramento, California. Gail and Lynda lived in Centerville, Utah. And Jerry was on a mission in Canada.

Mon, Nov 3. I got up & took Kay & Gene over to Seminary & came home & got little Kids off to school. Ivard & Jackie went up to Hickmans & got eggs then went to Nampa to see about getting corn picker fixed & I iorned all morning. I iorned until Kids came home then Dale, Jackie & I took Ray selling light bulbs for scouts & Xmas cards for him. Gene went down & did Tom's chores & did ours. Kay went to Adrian to dance practice at school.

Tues, Nov 4. I got up & took Kay & Gene over to Seminary then came home & cooked little Kids breakfast & they went to school and I cleaned up & started to iorn but didn't get much done, Ida came relief society teaching & the guy from Parma came out & fixed my washer & dryer. The guy came out & fixed corn picker. We went up & voted then I had a bath & Ivard got Jackie ready & we went to relief society & he went to work. Ray got supper. Gene & I went over to school & Gene was initiated into F.F.A. Went back to work tonight.

Wed, Nov 5. I came home from work & we went to Adrian & I washed 2 batches of clothes. Me & Jackie went to bed at 1:30 & Ivard came home & went to work & never woke us up. When Ray came from school we went & sold some more light bulbs & cards. Kay, Gene & Ray went to Mutual. I went to work at 11:

Thurs, Nov 6. I came home from work & ate & we went to Caldwell & mailed Jerrys money for this month then went to Simplots & borrowed $270. from Credit Union to pay taxes. Came home & went to bed & Ivard tended Jackie. she woke me up in a couple of hrs & Ivard was asleep & she had everything out of Kids, really went to town.

Fri, Nov 7. Kay took car & went & got Claudia for foot ball game. Ivard, Gene & I went in Pick-up. Adrian's last game of year. Beat Marshing 55 to 0 to win S.R.V.B. Championship. Kay made 4 T.D but only 2 counted. He made a 95 yrd. run & referees blew whistle, thought Hatch had ball & had been tackled.

Sat, Nov 8. I came home from work & went to bed I was so tired. Ray tended Kids and scrubbed & waxed floors. Kay took off in car & got home at dark & Kids came & took him to show at Nampa.

Sun, Nov 9. I came home from work & put a roast on & went to bed. Kids went to Priesthood & sunday school. Jackie had such a cold Ivard stayed home & tended her. He did up dishes & cooked potatoes & carrots & I got up & made gravey & we ate when Kids got home. Ivard left for work at 3: I spent all afternoon until 9: writeing 14 page letter to Lyle, 10 page letter to Gail & I didn't get mothers finished.

6 What in the world

√ The 2008 World Series, a best-of-seven series played from October 22 to October 29 between the Philadelphia Phillies of the National League and the Tampa Bay Rays of the American League, ended after five games. The completion of the final game was delayed by weather and was completed two days later, the first game in World Series history to be suspended. The Phillies won the series four games to one. It was their second win in their 126-year history. The first was in 1980.

Way back in 1983, Utah's Hogle Zoo offered free admission thanks to ZCMI and welcomed 17,696 visitors, which set an all-time one-day attendance record. That record stood for 25 years, until a week ago Saturday, October 25, when the zoo shattered that record as 23,497 guests attended Boo at the Zoo. Our daughter Rachael and her three girls, down from Malad, along with our grandson Hyrum and me, were among that number. (Hyrum, who is 2, belongs to Cade and Rebecca, who were spending the week in Hawaii.)

Boo at the Zoo at Hogle Zoo has become a Utah tradition for families and little trick-or-treaters 12 and younger. The zoo bills it as "Utah's premier family-friendly and safe Halloween event." And perhaps its most crowded.

√ In football games played away-from-home on Saturday, Utah beat New Mexico 13-10 in Albuquerque, BYU struggled but ended up with a 45-42 win over Colorado State in Fort Collins, and Boise State beat New Mexico State 49-0 in Las Cruces. Boise State and Utah are 9th and 10th in the various polls, and BYU is 16th, 17th, or 18th, depending on which poll you're looking at.

7 A final word

Tomorrow is election day. Finally. For most of us, I suspect, political fatigue set in weeks or even months ago. We want to shout, "Enough already!"

Yet it would be a monumental shame, after enduring the verbal shelling that has bombarded us over the past year, if we did not step into the voting booth and exercise our right and fulfill our responsibility to vote.

And while it matters a great deal whether Barak Obama or John McCain is sitting in the White House come next January, it matters every bit as much, or perhaps even more, who will be sitting on our city councils and in our county commissions, who will be representing us in our legislatures and in Congress, who will be elected as our mayors and governors. It matters whether amendments and initiatives pass or fail.

The Lord revealed in 1833 what sort of person we should seek for in public office: "Wherefore, honest men and wise men should be sought for diligently, and good men and wise men ye should observe to uphold" (D&C 98:10).

Candidates who are honest, wise, and good—if those are among our choices—"otherwise whatsoever is less than these cometh of evil" (D&C 98:10).

We believe the Constitution of the United States was inspired of God. Under the umbrella of that inspired document, our whole system works, for better or worse, insofar as we care to abide by the foundational principles that undergird it and insofar as we elect honest, wise, and good people to administer it. And while there seem to be notable exceptions on both sides of the aisle, I have come to conclude that neither of our political parties has any monopoly on honesty, wisdom, or goodness. Sadly, these traits all too often seem to be in short supply.

So, we are to act "according to the laws and constitution of the people, which I [the Lord God] have suffered to be established, and should be maintained for the rights and protection of all flesh, according to just and holy principles;

"That every man may act in doctrine and principle pertaining to futurity, according to the moral agency which I have given unto him, that every man may be accountable for his own sins in the day of judgment.

"Therefore, it is not right that any man should be in bondage one to another.

"And for this purpose have I established the Constitution of this land, by the hands of wise men whom I raised up unto this very purpose, and redeemed the land by the shedding of blood" (D&C 101:77–80).

The bottom line? As we were reminded in last week's newsletter, we are "to study the issues and candidates carefully and prayerfully, and then to vote for and actively support those you believe will most nearly carry out your ideas of good government" (First Presidency letter dated Sept. 11, 2008). End of story.