The Cleverly Newsletter has been published in hard copy since September 1973 and online since October 2008.

Currently posted the first day of each month by Ivard and Dorothy's seventh son, Dean B Cleverly. Comments, suggestions, contributions welcomed at dcleverly@gmail.com.

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

1 Memorial Day

Memorial Day is a Federal holiday in the United States observed on the last Monday of May. Although it can occur as early in the calendar as May 25, this year the holiday falls on May 31. It was formerly known as Decoration Day, which is what I always remember it being called as I was a child growing up in eastern Oregon and southwestern Idaho.

The holiday officially commemorates U.S. men and women who died while in the military service, but the day has become generalized to honor all loved ones who have died. It has also become the unofficial start of the summer vacation season, which extends from Memorial Day on the last Monday of May until Labor Day on the first Monday in September.

First enacted to honor Union soldiers who served during the Civil War (1861-1865), the holiday expanded after the two World Wars (1917-18 and 1941-45) during the last century. Many of the states in the South refused to celebrate Decoration Day because of lingering hostility toward the Union Army and because there were relatively few veterans of the Union Army buried in the South.

Although the alternative name "Memorial Day" was first used in 1882, the name did not become common until after World War II and was not declared official by Federal law until 1967. In 1971 the holiday moved from May 30, its traditional date, to the last Monday of May.

A tradition associated with Memorial Day is flying the flag at half-staff from dawn until noon. To help re-educate and remind Americans of the true meaning of Memorial Day, the "National Moment of Remembrance" resolution was passed in December 2000 asking that at 3:00 p.m. in each time zone on Memorial Day all Americans "voluntarily and informally observe in their own way a moment of remembrance and respect, pausing from whatever they are doing for a moment of silence or listening to Taps."

A tradition I remember from childhood that is no longer observed, as far as I can tell, is that cars would drive with lights on during the morning hours until noon.

The National Memorial Day Concert takes place on the west lawn of the United States Capitol where music is performed and respect paid to the men and women who gave their lives for their country. The concert is broadcast on both PBS and NPR.

In addition to remembrance, the day is also widely used as a time for picnics, barbecues, family gatherings and outings, and sporting events. One of the longest-standing traditions is the running of the Indianapolis 500, an auto race that has been held in conjunction with Memorial Day since 1911.

We wish all of you in our family an enjoyable and safe Memorial Day weekend, whatever your plans or wherever your comings and goings. One way we are celebrating is not publishing the Cleverly Newsletter next week, so see you again in two weeks (on Tuesday, June 8).

2 Quote of the week

A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself.

Joseph Campbell

3 This week in our family

We are taking a Memorial Day holiday break and will not publish the newsletter next week, so we share two weeks of family happenings this week

Tues, May 25: Melissa's [Kyle's wife] birthday [Kay]
Tues, May 25: Gene & Cheryl married 1966 [Gene]
Wed, May 26: Caleb's birthday [Dean]
Wed, May 26: Gabriel Price's birthday [Lyle]
Thurs, May 27: Brandon's birthday [Kay]
Fri, May 28: Nicholas Riley's birthday [Lyle]
Mon, May 31: Memorial Day

Wed, June 2: Talmage's birthday [Dean]
Thurs, June 3: Bill & Kelly married 1982 [Gail]
Thurs, June 3: Randy & Valerie married 1988 [Lyle]
Sun, June 4: Fast Sunday
Mon, June 7: Shauna Reher's birthday [Ray]
Tues, June 8: Jared Sayer's birthday [Jackie]
Tues, June 8: Miriam Hoff's birthday [Dean]
Tues, June 8: Gail died 2000 [Gail] 
Tues, June 8: Next issue of newsletter

4 Bits and tidbits

Lyle's family
Lyle called on Wednesday afternoon, May 19, to report that Marc's baby was born in Boise on May 19. Marcus Christian Cleverly weighed 7 pounds 12 ounces and was 20 1/2 inches long.

Lyle also reported that he is going up to Washington for the Memorial Day weekend. Terry and Becky are planning to go down to visit Stan's family in Aberdeen and Doug's in Hoquiam for the weekend.

Lyle's granddaughter Amber, who lives with her husband Nathan Thomas in Spokane, was one of the few who responded a couple months ago to our census request for family information. I recorded the information she sent me, but I don't think I ever shared the update she provided on a couple of her siblings:

"In other family news, my brother Aric Cleverly is currently going to college at Central Washington University and living in Ellensburg, WA. My brother Aaron Cleverly is currently living and working in Aberdeen, WA. My parents (Stan and Patty) continue to live in Aberdeen, WA. Thanks for all of your work on the newsletter!!!"

I also failed to include her husband Nathan's birthday on our family calendar a couple weeks ago: His birthday was on May 17. A belated happy birthday to him.

Kay's family
Chad and Nicolle's son Easton just graduated from preschool on Saturday, May 22. Our heart-felt congratulations to him.

You can see a report of the day on their family's blog. We share here a picture of the Higley family. Easton is the one on the right in the white shirt and tie (being held by his dad).






Dean's family
Michael and Shauna's second child, Caleb, turns 12 tomorrow and will receive the Aaronic Priesthood and be ordained a deacon this coming Sunday afternoon, May 30, by his father Michael.

Cade Hoff, Rebecca's husband, spent several days in Las Vegas last week at a work-related convention or workshop. And Paul and Eliza Challis and their two boys drove Saturday night from Atlanta to Houston, where Paul yesterday and today was likewise involved in some pharmacy-related training. They will be returning home Wednesday. Eliza reported that they had an opportunity to visit the Space Center there in Houston, and they enjoyed that a lot.